| I left quite early, first at the hospital, then on maternity leave. Toxicosis in the traditional sense, I was not, but pursued an eerie vertigo. Paul hobbled, went to shake the walls, and the earth swam from under the feet. In this state, I was rather difficult to esters. I gathered myself and start a program on parole, that is, on one wing. Explained the situation to your doctor and heard in response: "Olga, you need to slow down their pace of life for the sake of your health and the health of the unborn child." The doctor strongly recommended to go to the hospital. And I was arguing with her. To tell the truth, full of rest I was not. The first three months I was preparing for an event called "wedding" - a very costly exercise and in the financial and psychological sense. And then started at least an interesting story called "repair flats. We Vadim, my husband, a serious business, and he certainly could not fully engage in the apartment design. And since I at that time did not work, then took the initiative in this matter for themselves. And the result is very, very pleased with both of us. Children's room, I worked with great love, made entirely to your liking, although over the rest of the apartment constantly consulted with her husband. Vadim, seeing children, said that the room turned out the best. All the light, in gentle, pastel shades, with furniture in ivory. Above the crib of Dasha I hung a beautiful canopy. Veesh pretty useless, but very good looks. Husband said: "It's just a bed little princess!" It's true - Dasha for us little princess. Wake had quite early, but I always get up with the expectation of a joyous event, and it is joyful - the smile of my daughter. She always wakes up in a good mood, and when I start to talk to her any first words, once stretched in a charming little face completely toothless smile. Her smile is very warm me in the morning. I recently in a smart book for moms read that the child's character can be understood from the first days of life. I think that is an exaggeration. But I see that the sanguine temperament of the Dasha. It must be something spontaneous. Thirty minutes, it can still be alone, play rattles, beating her foot in the music wall, listen to what obtained with the sounds. But very soon called my mother, and quite strongly. I took my daughter in my arms I present to different objects, tell her about them, and she calms down. First weeks of life of Dasha remembered as the worst. Child, just born, had to adapt, there was no treatment, and we are still poorly understood, it lacks some milk for her, whether it is convenient to sleep. And Dasha first night we just did not let us sleep, waking up once or twice, three. For me it was agony, because I have to sleep just wanted to desperately. Despite the presence of the nurse, I always tried to take the initiative themselves, a lot of fuss, little sleep, crazy nervous. And Vadim, looking at all this, send me to sleep. He was in the morning I had to work, and he stood for three hours in bed. I talked with her friends, and I know that not all fathers are capable of such feats. First Vadim did not want to be present at birth, but at the last moment, when doctors asked whether he would support me, said: "Yes, of course." His presence helped me a lot. He hugged my belly, kissing in the domes, and the pain immediately released. No unpleasant sensations was not. Moreover, I felt like that's my baby, feel labor pains, attempts, but there was no pain. And we ourselves childbirth lasted a maximum of fifteen minutes - twenty and passed very easily. Although this is my first birth, and in general I'm not the youngest girl. Friend, I tried not to listen, to avoid internet to scare stories about childbirth. Maintained a calm mental state, therefore, and bore easily. Although, of course, initially felt that the birth, without any doubt, the most important moment in my life. |
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